My plan is to spend the next 30 years trying to make the world a better place. I will continue to volunteer, raise funds for good causes, write pieces that resonate with the beauty and the ugly that lies within all of us, and no matter how hard it will be …I am going to do it with a smile on my face. We cannot only care about matters that affect us directly. We cannot only be the anecdote for diseased parts of ourselves. Our humanity calls us to attempt to treat others with love and respect. What if we go beyond that? What if we actually tried to help someone even in the midst of our own wilderness? I went out on the 20th with a cold, with my husband and children, took a shuttle to the site, operated on 4 1/2 hours of sleep after taking my children to a party the night before. I walked 3 miles for women who have had mastectomies, women who have endured chemotherapy, women who have lost their lives and women who are too afraid to even see a physician because of loved ones they have buried. I walked because I can. I walked because I have the use of both of my legs and I have the will to be a part of something amazing. I walked because we are not called to shy away from matters that bring pain and disruption to the lives of others. I walked because I believe in medicine. I walked because I believe in God. I walked because I believe one day there will be a pill or a shot in place of devastation and despair. I walked because pink is a beautiful color. I walked because the energy and the music and the courageousness is infectious.
I walked because we can spend years taking selfies until we are happy with the selves we see. Yet, I have no intention of wasting purpose on persuading the masses to click “like.” I want my legacy to be laced with the luster of love.
It happens every year. New years resolutions, dream boards/vision lists, gratitude jars, and planners. We are bombarded with ways to make the new year count. “New year new me” is a popular headline. Social media timelines are inundated with new looks and haircuts and matching pajama sets. We sync into the idea of needing a “fresh start.”
How necessary is this?
If you simply don’t snooze the alarm and you answer the alerts the Creator is giving you daily, can’t you make the most out of every day? Can’t you make each day productive and prosperous and consequently become a new version of yourself? My 5 year old has a habit of saying, “I trust my promise.” We used to correct her. Now we’ve adapted to it. We all say it now. It means, I’m giving you my word and I know you’re trusting in me to keep it. We have to teach our children the importance of responsibility. There are times when there is no one to blame and no one to point a finger at. You are responsible for the way you respond to situations and you are responsible for doing what you say you will do.
Lets be really REAL for a moment. You know there are about 5 things you could have responded to differently this week. There are at least 5 times you could have ignored the trolls and the nuisances. There are at least 5 times you could have stayed focused on your goals. There are at least 5 customer acquisitions you could have made. There were 5 new followers you could have had in the grocery store or the nail salon this week. Each day could have been “new day, new you.”
You fail all the time but you aren’t a failure until you start blaming someone else.-Bum Phillips (football coach)
I posted on Instagram in December that I will be posting on ShaunLiriano.com once a week and/or releasing a new YouTube video once a week. Why?
Calling: The intentional use of our specific gifts to influence God’s kingdom.-Mike Todd
What you do is bigger than you! Every person you come in contact with is an opportunity to make an impact. Furthermore, I do not delete old posts. Why? Transparency is important! Yes, you used to curse like a sailor. Yes, you used to drink like a fish Sis! Bruh, you were “sexually free” allllllllll through college! Share your story and stop letting the devil delight in exposing the things you keep trying to hide so you can seem self righteous.
Finally, humble yourself. Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do. Realize that you are flawed. If you didn’t get that raise, what could you have done better? If your child isn’t flourishing academically, what can you implement at home to strengthen their scholastic confidence? This one is good -> -> -> -> If there are aspects of your life that you skimmed through and you half-assed, can you revisit them and do them right? Can you be more mature? Can you submit in your marriage more? Can you submit in your Faith more? When’s the last time you read a book?
Discern the difference between daily goals and annual goals and Don’t Snooze the Alarm!
Let me start by saying, I am writing this as an artist. I am writing this as a student of life. I am not a political blogger therefore I am assuming you are already abreast of the controversy surrounding one of the greatest hip hop artists of all time. I do not usually provide commentary on societal trends. I am writing this as a tortured creative soul. I am writing this as a lover of hip hop. I am writing this as an optimist.
I love hip hop. I will not mourn Kanye West. I do not agree with his political views. I am not even sure Kanye West agrees with his political views! I’m celebrating the parts of him that I can morally subscribe to…his genius. I will even go so far as to say that I am astounded by his acceptance of himself and of others. He has been saying that he is “leading with love” and that he loves every creature who walked the earth.
I am perplexed by the dichotomy dwelling in Kanye West. He is talented and articulate. He is a wordsmith. Yet, he is thinking clearly (kinda) and he is not successfully conveying the true intent of his actions and thoughts. In fact, when one mentions that he may be “hurting others” you can see the distress and the SUDDEN awareness on his face as he carefully chooses his words. How does this happen?
People will take something enlightening, put it in a different context and then call it crazy. To try to diminish the impact and the value of what I’m actually saying. -Kanye West
I was born in 1985. The artists who have impacted my generation in an astounding way all had a common motif …they were “crazy.” I don’t even have to mention their names. You’re thinking of them right now: Michael Jackson, Prince, Left Eye, Amy Winehouse, Whitney Houston…
They were judged when they were alive. They were called icons and legends when they died. Food for thought: We studied the poetry of Tupac Shakur at Pace University post his death. We studied the lyrics and videos of Lady Gaga in English Literature at Stonybrook University. Her “enlightened viewpoints” were compared to the great Edgar Allen Poe. What measurement do we use to distinguish the difference between brilliance and insanity?
But I know the view is that I’m emotionally unstable, which is reality. Like you aren’t?-Lauryn Hill
One of the most terrible things we do to artists is forget to separate their human form from their ethereal imaginative alter egos. We have to consider that in order for a person who is of this world to create something out of this world, he or she has to remove their consciousness from the boundaries and constraints of what is accepted as “normal.”
Bravery is more important than perfection.-Kanye West
I am actually scared to publish this post. What will you do tomorrow, Mr. West? What hat will you wear tomorrow, Mr. West? Will you forget this girl from South Jamaica Queens who bumped “The College Dropout” in my 1980 Pontiac Grand Prix? Will you forget this wannabee rebel who had “The wise man say, you’ll find your way
The wise man say, you’ll find your way” scribbled on the back of my favorite denim jacket?* This fake actress-Spike Lee geek was glued to the computer screen when you had the balls to release your own full length film, “Runaway.” I’ve never considered myself a “fan” of anyone really but the respect I have for your talent and perseverance is immeasurable.
I see your pain but I see your passion. I can disregard the blond hair and the liposuction because that is just a physical representation of a spirit who is lost on a level that he wasn’t fully prepared to ascend to.
We don’t want to mourn you, Sir. We want to be moved by your music and motivated by your mystique. Get out.
What I see here is nothing but a shell…what is most important is invisible.- Antoine de Saint Exupery (The Little Prince)
By: Shaun Liriano
*Lyrics from Pinocchio Story by Kanye West (808’s & Heartbreak)