You can only catch one chicken at a time.
and my favorite…
Jack of all trades and master of none.
A person who is multi-talented or curious is often considered to be “flighty”, “messy”, “lacking focus”, or a “dreamer.” These are your liberal arts majors in schools. These are your subway singers. These are your “professional students.” They are always “finding themselves.” What I’ve noticed is these people are exhausting to their loved ones. Are you one of the aforementioned? Well, have you ever been asked any of the following?
So what do you want to do with that?
Oh! So you’re a _____________now?
What are you going to do for money?
The questions are fielded towards you and what do you do? Do you get defensive because they don’t “get” you?
There isn’t much I
think believe I cannot do (thought and belief are different but that’s a separate post.) I’ve tried it all. I’ve done personal training, martial arts, I took security guard training, I played tennis, I played chess in college my freshman year (although I wasn’t very good)…you get the idea. The only two things that have been constant in my life are music and literature. They pacify my inner baby. When I enter that space, I am in another world. I am in a safe cocoon of calm. I am invincible. I am untouchable. There is no high like that of creating something and seeing the effect it has on others. That connection is remarkable. It’s a human relationship that allows you to alleviate someone else’s pain or share in their happiness. Although those are my constants, it doesn’t mean I am not capable of doing something else.
Your ambition is your double-edged sword, Shaun.
Currently, I am in a place of self exploration. I am taking an acting class. It is freaking amazing! I wanted to sharpen my stage presence as a poet. I signed up for the class and it has opened doors of opportunity that I couldn’t have imagined. I’ve met people who have been in the industry for decades. The networking, the experiences, the tips, the tricks, the progression I’ve made is priceless. Now, I can create monologues with my free verse poetry and I personally know actors, playwrights, and venue owners who can bring my writing to life. The excitement I feel is so juvenile. It is a childlike hope.
It is a childlike hope.
Sometimes people say, “let me keep it 100 with you.” That means they are going to tell you the truth. They are giving you 100%. When someone is really trying to bring it home they may say, “I’m gonna keep it a thousand!”
They’re keeping it real.
Well, I’m going to keep it a thousand…
Do what you do, every day, to the best of your ability and with no apologies. If you’re a genius, no one will understand what the hell you are doing. You may be judged. You may be called names. God willing your loved ones will support you and love you even in a state of confusion. You can reward them later when you are successful. You can write in a journal so they can read your thoughts when you’re dead. Whatever you decide to do is okay as long as its authentic. Do not use monetary value to bring legitimacy to what you do. There are people crying in mansions.
Check out what I found randomly googling one day:
3. A jack of all trades is a master of none.
This saying got cut short as well and originally said “A jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one.” Unlike what our version would lead you to believe, having multiple interests but not being an expert in anything could actually prove advantageous.
If you’re good at everything…do everything! Kick ass at it. Bust down doors instead of waiting for them to open. Make it hard to be ignored. Surround yourself with people who believe in you.
The only way you can fail is by second guessing yourself and listening to the voices in everyone else’s head. You can do this.